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This is your life, but I advise you not to marry her if your mother doesn’t like her, as this will cause many problems in the future, unless you live separately from your family! Your mother and sister want a servant to serve them in the house! 

I am living in a joint family.My whole family wants me to get married with one of my cousins except my mother and sisters.I don’t have any problem marrying with my cousin either.My mother and sister don’t want me to marry my cousin because they think that she is not capable of doing many things however she is an aalim and also hv great fikr for deen.Problem with me is that if I decline marriage offer the entire family will get divided and if I accept,my mother will get sad.

Fiqh of the family | May 23, 2018 4:53 am
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I would like to know what I can do with my sister. She does not see my mum or call her. She says because my mum is negative. She also does not call or see my sister. It has been 6 months. I have advised her but she does not listen to me. What can I do? Please advise me
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Sometimes I intend to do something for my mother but then ask ALLAH reward me for these actions for my mother but after some days when my mom says u dont do a single thing.I reply in frustration by saying U never appreciate never praise not say good of me for any work i do for u,reminding her my actions.Is this shirk.Am i non muslim.Do i have to shahadah and ghusl?