ANSWER:

You are not obliged to spend on yourself, let alone your husband!

It is his responsibility to look after you and not vice versa. With wives like you, he wouldn’t have to work as long as he has “sugar mommy”!

I am a woman in polygamy the last wife of 3 wives. I recently got married and didn’t know my husband is struggling financially. I’m responsible for my upkeep 100% and do give my husband money from time to time. I have some savings and willing to forfeit them for him to pursue a new career which in sha Allah will benefit us all. However, I’m scared of what the future would be.

Fiqh of Marriage, Kind Treatment of Spouses | February 19, 2020 4:23 pm
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We were discussing with my friends and some of them said that one can randomly choose a waliy for herself even if the person is not your family and the wedding will still be valid. I need more clarification on this topic.
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Please enlighten me with “who has more right on a girl ones she is nikkahfied , The husband or her parents ? If under any circumstances she is to make a choice whom should she choose ? Her parents or her husband ? Allah will question her about who’s right ? The parents or the husband ?