18 Rabi al-Awwal 1441

His family is an Arab and I am Muslim African this month he will graduate his family pushing him to marry an Arab speacially his moth I am afraid to said you have to marry me with out his family permission he will travel to his country after a few weeks later I knw they are waiting this time to convince him he explain about me to his family his mother said he can’t marry African

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In Pre-Marital Relations
Sep 18th, 2019
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This kind of relationship is absolutely prohibited in islam and you’re sinful for continuing this. If you don’t want Allah’s wrath on you in this dunya and the hereafter and if you want Allah to pardon you, you must immediately stop all communication with him and block him from everywhere besides repenting sincerely.

A man does not require anyone’s permission to get married except the permission of the girl’s father (wali). However, such marriages do not succeed much, therefore he should convince his parents with respect and diplomacy. 

If he really wants to marry you, he must send a proposal to your father asking your hand in marriage and you must not be in touch with him at all until your father gives his consent and you both are married. However, if he is reluctant, he doesn’t seem man enough to make his own decisions and marrying such a person would negatively impact your marriage later on as he might yield to his mother’s pressure to divorce you.

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