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Your wife must stay at her parents house while you are away and not at your parents house. She’s not obliged whatsoever to stay with your parents. 

Your wife can bring their granddaughter once in a while to visit or she can leave her there for a few hours, without your wife staying there, if she doesn’t want to.

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Currently I’m working abroad and i cannot afford to keep my family with me as i hv to settle some debts.my wife and 1 year old daughter was staying with my parents.my paraents have some issues with my wife and i asked her to stay in her house.but my parents is too attached with my daughter and wants them home,but in their mind they still dnt like my wife.i love my parents and wife. What should i do

Dealings and Attitudes with In-Laws | March 12, 2018 6:37 am
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if a wife do all duties2wards husband’s house,kids n his parents(to co oprate him),but if she shortcums in his parents duties,he scold n mistreat wife by saying that its not her responsibility but if she won’t do it properly,he leaves the job to serve his parents coz he earns for wife n kids n not get tym to serve parents,otgerwise wife is obliged to this duty in his behalf.how correct it is?
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After marriage taking decisions like what to wear where to go isn’t allowed ?When my husband permits me something todo so the intervention of in laws is right?My in laws always said not to stay at your parents home and try to manipulate my husband 2.My husband’s very kindhearted,fearful person to Allah so he always took my side when needed.Tell me the ruling over their interference