Fiqh of Marriage

QUESTION: I am a girl 28 years old and now my parents wants me to get married and I also said them okay but as soon the things got final I dont wanna marry and I am under extreme pressure now. I have been praying 5 times and tahajud too and went to umrah as well and discuss this to Allah as well but I feel not ready at all. I just wanna ask you am I sinful?

07 Feb

ANSWER: I don’t know! When you are 28 years old, what are you waiting for? Every year you delay your marriage, you will be proposed to by a widower or someone who needs a second or 3rd wife or by a divorcee who has 3 children and wants you to take care of them! If […]

QUESTION: My husband’s family didn’t let us be with him. He settled a separate setup for us near his parents but His mother threw us out of it. Now he will not keep us and not even giving money for my children expenditure if I will not go back. I want to tell you his mother had already done this 4 times before I requested my husband to move somewhere he denied. Nd said My mother is more imp. Plz guide me

Fiqh of Marriage, Kind Treatment of Spouses

06 Feb

ANSWER: If your husband is a mommy’s boy and not a real man, you have no other alternative but to go back or to file for divorce. It is your right in Islam to have a separate house. If you are in a country that honors your rights as a wife and a mother, take […]

QUESTION: I’m living abroad with my wife and son. My parents wants to visit us for 10 days, but my wife doesn’t like them coming as last time they came before 2 years and stayed for 3 months, there was misunderstanding between my wife and mother. As my mom keeps on nagging my wife even for small things. I’m stuck in between and don’t know what to do. Please advise

Dealings and Attitudes with In-Laws, Fiqh of Marriage

23 Jan

ANSWER: Your wife should understand that these are your parents and that you love them and they can come and stay for a few days. It’s not as if she has to live with them forever! You have a right to host them for 10 days without her complaining and she can stay out of […]

QUESTION: There is a girl whom i really respect because of her aqida and knowledge. She strictly follow the manhaj of alhul sunnah wal jama’a and we also follow the same scholars. I really want to marry her but the only thing is that she doesn’t cover her hair. What is your advise regarding this? Because i think maybe i can advise her and tell her to wear it when doing the nikkah or after and she could list

Fiqh of Marriage

19 Jan

ANSWER: Such a woman is not a practicing Muslimah regardless of what she portrays herself to be. She is not a good wife material and I wouldn’t advise you to marry her. Look for someone who walks the talk and would be a good role model to your children

QUESTION: Is there any chance that groom’s family is superior than a bride’s family in any form in Islam?

Fiqh of Marriage

18 Jan

ANSWER: No. Families are free and equal.

QUESTION: Can a sunni muslim marry a zaidi shia?

Fiqh of Marriage, Invalid Marriages

17 Jan

ANSWER: Zaidi shia are the closest shia to Muslims with the exception of the Jaroudi shia who are similar if not worse than the Imamiyah rafidah However, it is still not advisable at all to marry from such a sect even when they are closest to us as this is not a game but rather […]

QUESTION: Ya sheikh if a woman hates her husband, is forced to be with him in this world, would she be his wife in after world too?

Fiqh of Marriage, Paradise and Hell

10 Jan

ANSWER: Yes

QUESTION: My husband and I live in *****, we are both working and got married last year. After marriage, he uses religion only to oppress me. His brother lives with us he tells me to stay in normal clothing and asks me to spend time with him, cook for him and treat him like a son. He is only 2 years younger to me. His parents are also very controlling and create issues if I don’t call them.

Dealings and Attitudes with In-Laws, Fiqh of Marriage, Fiqh of the family

09 Jan

ANSWER: This is totally prohibited! You must put your foot down and never come in front of him like this and never be alone with him in the house. He is obliged to provide you with a separate house. If he doesn’t do that, you are better off leaving him before you conceive from him!

QUESTION: My husband abandoned me and stopped talking to me because my Dad didn’t answered his two messages on New year and didn’t called his dad on one eid. He says that you also have to suffer and get ignored like your father did. I tried calling him and asked him what is my mistake he says you guys don’t value your son in law. Does Islam give such privilege to a man? What should I as a wife & daughter?

Fiqh of Marriage, Kind Treatment of Spouses

07 Jan

ANSWER: Your husband is an ignorant imbecile and you must be patient and make dua for Allah to guide him Don’t respond to his accusations and do not defend yourself or your family as this won’t have any benefit as he is not looking for fairness or a way to solve a problem as he […]

QUESTION: Are apps like Salam* and muzmatc* haram ?

Fiqh of Marriage

04 Jan

ANSWER: It is not permissible to use dating apps for Muslims! If this is a matrimonial app that doesn’t post women’s photos and doesn’t provide their numbers and only gives the number of her wali, this seems permissible.

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