Fiqh of Marriage

If a person who’s practicing has attached himself to a girl who is not practicing and she is in haram relationship/close to marriage can such person make dua to get married to her or is it transgression in dua?

30 May

ANSWER: Such a person can’t be “practicing” while willing to be engaged to such an individual! This falls under the definition of dayyouth. She is not the last woman on earth!

Husband and his siblings share everythin with each other,even the wrongs of their wives,his sister acts like she is their mother advising them about the wrongs of their wives etc, its like they want 2 share every details,husband can’t live without their advices,heard him telling his brothers the wrongs of their wives openly,calling everyday 2 one another constantly, gives me anxiety how 2 deal?

Fiqh of Marriage, Fiqh of the family, Kind Treatment of Spouses

27 May

ANSWER: Her husband is sinful for backbiting his wife and she must advise him to act like a man and stop backbiting her in front of others. She must be tactful in her approach and become the one he seeks his tranquility in, in order to put a stop to this.

I got an alliance, where groom is having good aklaq & deen but he’s illiterate, also I can’t maintain mehram thing in his home, his residing place itself a very worst Area. ALHAMDULILLAH I’m a 2 degree holder, accordin to deen he is ok fr me but my fear is tat in future we might get lots of misunderstanding due to his illiteracy. I’m in totally big confusion. Give me some suggestions dear Sheik.

Fiqh of Marriage, Kind Treatment of Spouses

25 May

ANSWER: What counts is his religious practice and moral conduct. If he has both and is earning well, it doesn’t matter how illiterate he is. If he is unable to provide for you a separate accommodation, this is a good reason to reject him.

My father has been against me practicing my religion completly for a while. I has been against me keeping my beard because he fears I am becoming an extremist. He is threatening me to call the police if I insist (He got physical with me on another occasion). What should I do?

Fiqh of Marriage, Halal/Haram Matters

21 May

ANSWER: If he is this abusive and has such an attitude against Islam, it is best that you leave the house and go and live somewhere else if you can be independent as this is a form of migrating and running away with your religion.

If a girl is not able to grow affection for her husband even after marriage and only for the sake of her deen she’s forcing herself to like him. Will she be sinful to ask khula from her husband merely on the basis of not being able to like him?

Divorce, Fiqh of Marriage, Khula

20 May

ANSWER: If she is unable to give him his rights and has great resentment for him, she is not sinful for getting a khulu.

I belong to hardcore barelvi family and now family is looking for bride obviously criteria is hardcore barelvi beliefs.my question is if girl is not into shirk? asi enquired she is not into shirk but her father is 1000% ya ghous al madad & grave worshipper types. if i marry this girl can her “mushrik” father be her wali?is nikah valid?or should renew marriage with city qazi as her wali?

Fiqh of Marriage, Invalid Marriages, Marriage Contract

17 May

ANSWER: No, he cannot be her wali. Look for a Muslim in her family from her father’s side and he would become her wali. If there is no one like that, then the muslim judge becomes her wali. Sheikh, I wanted to know if a non-practising muslim father is considered to be a Wali or […]

When getting to know a potential for marriage and talking to then through text with mahram present could we use appropriate emojis such as a smiley face not the inappropriate ones?

Fiqh of Marriage

15 May

ANSWER: You only get to meet once with the potential spouse in the presence of your mahram and there should be no further meetings physically or virtually or through texting.

If someone asks me I’m I married nd I say no I’m not married and I’m married I didn’t want to tell them yet as it is New marriage .does this mean my wife is divorced now ? Did any talaq happen? shk plz clarify

Divorce, Fiqh of Marriage

14 May

ANSWER: Of course not! You are a liar but there’s no divorce here.

From the previous ques it’s clear that men shouldn’t marry a woman who goes on dargah or do biddah. My mom and cousins often force me to say yes for a man of the same category, when i refuse (as his family engage in the above mentioned deeds) they say that I’ll be responsible for my kids as a women raise kids not men. Is this right? Should i say yes for such a man?

Fiqh of Marriage, Invalid Marriages, Sects

12 May

ANSWER: No, you should not move ahead with such proposals of people with corrupt aqeedah or those committing shirk as the marriage would be invalid if he is committing shirk.

Actually i need your advise on how to solve my trauma of losing $7k for wedding payment. Which once in a while triggered me to get angry, talking to myself about unsatisfied issues, curse all the past and even i make du’a to allah to put all the cruel people that already ruin my life into hellfire.Where i already fork out almost $7k for 45% wedding payment. In the end we got broke off because my ex future can’t afford to proceed with another 55% of payment. And my 45% payment can’t be refund an

Fiqh of Marriage, Psychological and Social Problems

23 Apr

ANSWER: I don’t know! You can sit and weep for the rest of your life over this and nothing will change and the money won’t come back and everyone involved are living their lives and enjoying it while you are depressed and sad! Or you can be grateful that the marriage didn’t take place and […]

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