Fiqh of Marriage

QUESTION: How can we spy on a potential spouse if they don’t live near our home and it would not be appropriate to ask about their background(job location,friend’s name) and also they might be a sinner in the past but now they have repented and the people who may know the spouse might know about their past only and not their present condition??

17 Jan

ANSWER: You must do your due diligence by asking around his work place and where he lives and in the masjid he prays in order to gather as much information as possible about him. This is a marriage and not a game.

QUESTION: Shaikh I hear from someone that if either the husband or wife dies, the Nikah is broken, so the remaining partner will not be allowed to see the face of another, and if the wife dies, the husband will not be allowed to go to the grave to bury her. is this authentic?

Fiqh of Marriage, Funerals

07 Jan

ANSWER: This is absolutely baseless and fabricated!

QUESTION: Me and my husband have some saving for our kids in our joint account.my in-laws came to know this and forced my husband to give his shares to his parents my husband is already taking care of parents and all his siblings with luxury lifestyle when I resist to share our savings they all came and threaten me with divorce and sent me to my mom home.hsbnd says he will loose jannah if mom goes angry

Dealings and Attitudes with In-Laws, Fiqh of Marriage

06 Jan

ANSWER: How the husband spends his earnings and savings is his choice. You cannot stop him from sharing his money with whom he wants. You are entitled to your earnings and you can do whatever you want with it. No one can force you to spend or save it. With such in laws, you must […]

QUESTION: In my place people book hall for marriages, and invite many people, the woman who is about to marry puts a lot of make up and wear best clothes is it permissible? Or should she be wearing abaya?

Fiqh of Marriage, Sports, Entertainment and Music, Women clothing

04 Jan

ANSWER: If such gatherings are segregated and no one would see her except other women, there is no problem in that. But if there is a possibility of a non mahram man to see her, this is totally prohibited.

QUESTION: Am about to get married in a few months. My in laws wants to have nikah in a function hall. Bt i want in a masjid. Bt they r insisting on function hall. What should I do sheikh? Is it okay to accept

Fiqh of Marriage

02 Jan

ANSWER: The walima is your responsibility according to your ability and will. Having it in a masjid is not from the sunnah and there is no special thing, as you can’t also invite people to dine in the masjid. Therefore, you should have it home or in a public place within reason and without extravagance. […]

QUESTION: My husband says I am obligated to serve his parents if he says so, because it’s my obligation to obey him. Is it true? Do I have to serve his parents and his other relatives? Please let me know in detail.

Dealings and Attitudes with In-Laws, Fiqh of Marriage, Kind Treatment of Spouses

31 Dec

ANSWER: What he’s saying is not true! You are obliged to obey him and to serve him and not serve other people! This is not slavery!

QUESTION: What is the expiation for anal sex??

Fiqh of Marriage, Sins

29 Dec

ANSWER: The sin is so major and heinous, there is no kaffarah that can accommodate it! A person who does this is cursed by Allah. https://islamqa.info/en/answers/52803/is-there-any-expiation-for-having-intercourse-with-a-woman-in-her-back-passage

QUESTION: If a father liked a guy for her daughter and her daughter too willing to marry him without having any problem and her father gave green light,then is it mandatory for her to obey her mother as she did not like the groom for her daughter….?

Fiqh of Marriage, Marriage Contract

26 Dec

ANSWER: No! What counts is her own father’s approval and her consent. Her mother’s approval doesn’t matter.

QUESTION: Before marriage I informed my father he didn’t agree with the women and for mother I wasn’t informed her that I get marriage because I was feeling she was on same page with my father as she give me the condition the same as father give to me and she didn’t accept my wife because of that I appogies for her several times but she want me to Divorce my wife so that she can forgive me

Fiqh of Marriage, Fiqh of the family

23 Dec

ANSWER: It’s totally prohibited for you to obey her in this regard! She has no right, none whatsoever to order you to divorce your wife unless your wife is not a decent practicing woman or she is evil and immodest.

QUESTION: Is it haram for parents to hide the fact that their son is autistic while looking for a bride for him?

Character and Morals, Fiqh of Marriage

22 Dec

ANSWER: This is lying and cheating her! How would they feel if the woman hid from them that she has herpes or HIV+?

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