Pre-Marital Relations

I am in relation for 5 years.I wanted to end this.When i said him he tried to comitted suicide.Again Few years later I tell him it is haram I can’t continue this.he cried so much and eat poison.After a long time operation he was well.Recently I am avoiding him and he is mad at me,I fear if he do something again.Iwant to be a good muslim,but also want to marry him.What to do help me Sheikh!

17 Aug

ANSWER: You have a choice; either save him from committing suicide but as a result, end up with him in hell while Allah is angry with you for disobeying Allah and committing such a major sin OR Let his commit suicide on his own and go to hell alone while you end up in paradise […]

I fell into a haram relationship,i really like the guy,but now i don’t want to continue this haram relationship because ifeel very bad.And idon’t find him very suitable to get married to,he’s not the man of his word.icant promise to marry him,and hence wantsto getout ofthe relationship and end this.Buti have heard that allah doesn’t listen to one’s prayers who breaks the heart of other.ifear kifara

Pre-Marital Relations

21 Jun

ANSWER: You have a choice between two things: Continue your haram relationship so that you won’t break his heart but end up with him in hell for disobeying Allah Or Repent, cut all communications with him and be remorseful for disobeying Allah and save yourself from hellfire. The choice is yours!

when I was not a practicing muslim I gave one of my friend a relationship advice and they got back together but when I started practicing islam I asked Allah for forgiveness. So my question is should I tell my friend to get out of the Haram relationship? And he is a non mahram to me and I stopped talking to him. What should I do? Am I still accountable for them sinning?

Halal/Haram Matters, Pre-Marital Relations, Repentance, Sins

08 Jun

ANSWER: It’s not permissible to contact him or tell him anything at all as he’s a non mahram to you. Seek Allah’s forgiveness and repent to Allah sincerely while showing deep remorse and in sha Allah, Allah will forgive you. Do a lot of voluntary good deeds, especially night prayers, besides fulfilling all your obligatory […]

If some non muslim says imagin that he is muslim and imagin me as your husband to a widow girl and then they imagin having sex and takes a pleasure by imagining having sex. Is this a act of adultery? Later the girl feels so ashamed of her shameful act that she is unable to eat properly and could not sleep and repent to ALLAH sincerely. Will she be forgiven.

Halal/Haram Matters, Masturbation, Pre-Marital Relations

17 Jan

ANSWER: If you mean they both talked on phone or text and masturbated while talking with each other, this is totally prohibited and she must sincerely repent to Allah while showing deep remorse and never talk with non mahram men like this! However, this is not adultery but zina of ears and mouth if they […]

Few years ago in a messenger group in the presence of almost 15-20 friends i married a friend.the marriage was just for fun. But i think about it a lot.I am remorseful for my sins and i have repented to Allah.now my question, is my marriage valid? I dont want to take him as my husband. What should i do?

Halal/Haram Matters, Invalid Marriages, Pre-Marital Relations

11 Nov

ANSWER: This was not a marriage, rather it was mocking Allah’s rules!! Repent sincerely to Allah with deep remorse and exit the group as it’s not permissible to have non mahram men as friends.

Sir its nowadays a trend in our country Bangladesh ,that many guys doing their long term affair marriage!my few relative also doing this marriage and engesement. Prob is few of my relative talk to me in such way that i hove done so wrong that i hv not done affair! As if its my inability that i couldn’t.. How to response them? I feel so humiliate!!

Character and Morals, Etiquette, Morals and Heart-Softeners, Pre-Marital Relations

10 Nov

ANSWER: Why would you feel humiliated for abiding by Allah’s laws? This shows your lack of Iman. You must be proud of your religion and follow it to the core and be an inspiration for others. It is your duty to tell them that such relationships go against the Quran and Sunnah and it angers […]

I want to marry guy whom I love.we don’t talk anymore.my heart ache when I think he’ll of someone else n I want to marry him but my parents are all against him strictly as we are a rich n he is poor.had a physical relationship with in past but repented n cutoff.but still I want to marry him.what can i do to please Allah to accept my love n make way n ask Allah to make my parent ready for it

Pre-Marital Relations

18 Sep

ANSWER: You must sincerely repent to Allah while showing deep remorse for this haram relationship and doing the major sin of fornication! It doesn’t please Satan that you ended this and that is why he is doing his level best to get you back to sin and to make you anger Allah more and more […]

I m a revert n a born muslim man wnted to marry me!I had a past B4 converting which involved his very close relative!he said it was unacceptable fr him n a girl like me could never be d mother of his kids nd many mre things!he is now engaged to sme1 else1)i have constant thughts abt wht he said to me2)As his life is moving ahead!does it mean that allah is angry on me bcz i seem stuck ever since !

Pre-Marital Relations

18 Aug

ANSWER: This means that Allah has saved you from a haram relationship and also an irrational husband. Whatever you had done in the past before reverting to Islam is forgiven and you are not held accountable for it. You should never disclose your past sin to anyone, ever. Keep your hopes high and make dua […]

I was in an affair for past 2yrs after knowing this my parent denied due finacil background ,a lack of strong devotion toward deen of the partner and forced me to promise infront of kaabah ..even i denied bt still they forced me by saying that if u didnt promise we will not have a relation as father and daughter..after 2 months i break the promise and cntinued the relation..

Pre-Marital Relations

16 Aug

ANSWER: What you are doing is absolutely prohibited as premarital relationships are totally prohibited in Islam and you are sinful for continuing this. If you want Allah to pardon you, break all communications with him immediately and block him from everywhere besides repenting sincerely to Allah. Fear Allah and have some Mercy on your old […]

I had a haram relationship with a boy i broke up with him and now my heart is attached to him, i get bad thoughts that i cannot be happy with anyone else and this is the man i ll be happy with. I get thoughts that since i did wrong therefore its better to marry him but i also know that he is not good for me? How can i overcome.

Pre-Marital Relations

09 Aug

ANSWER: You did the right thing by repenting to Allah and breaking up with him! This doesn’t please Satan and this is why he is doing his level best to get you back to sin and to make you anger Allah more and more so that you and satan would be in the same boat. […]

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