Pre-Marital Relations

I have been in a haram relationship for 3 years. But the problem now is he is not letting me get out of it.i have tried telling him that all this is not good, when I did he tells he will tell to my family. My family is very orthodox, he blackmails me that he will tell my family , show pics and vids of us. If that happens my mom won’t be able to take it

09 May

ANSWER: This was bound to happen, as it is common in such ‘relationships’. What is the extent to which you are willing to let him blackmail you? He will soon have you physically doing his bidding, by such blackmails. You do not need to give any explanations to him whatsoever, simply cut off all communication […]

I have a girlfriend and I know Islam doesn’t allow me to contact girls, but Sheikh I love her a lot and I can breath without her, and my family now ignore to marry me I am still 18, from one side Islam doesn’t allow me, other side my parents and I love my GF a lot so what to do? I know the possible ways like prayers, adhkar but it can’t stop me

Pre-Marital Relations

19 Apr

ANSWER: If you are financially independent and can support a wife, you can marry her with her father’s consent, otherwise break off all communications with her immediately if you want Allah to forgive you. If you are ok with angering Allah and ending up in hell, you can maintain your haram relationship with her and […]

Considering the haraam relationships (basically, Girlfriend and boyfriend relationship) in which there is only chatting on WhatsApp.. I got know from you that this type of relationship is haraam.. Now my question is, does it make sense to keep such haraam relations with the intent of not hurting other’s feelings? Basically to keep such re because if he breaks up… this gonna hurt girl’s feeling ?

Pre-Marital Relations

26 Mar

ANSWER: You have a choice between two things: Break all communications in order to please Allah even if this hurts her feelings. Or Don’t hurt her feelings but end up in hell as a result! The choice is yours.

I wanna marry someone but as per my knowledge he is engaged in some prohibited things . He Don’t wanna marry me as he can’t talk to his family members and I’m thinking that I should pray for him that Allah changes him and open door of marriage for me with him. I am not in contact with him now. I really wanna marry him. Am I doing right if not then what should I do?

Fiqh of Marriage, Pre-Marital Relations

10 Mar

ANSWER: No, you are not doing the right thing at all! You are not a doormat and he is not the last man on earth! Someone who is sinful and proud of it and he doesn’t have the courage to speak to his parents and he is not man enough to marry you, who would […]

Mybrother like girl our parents wentbuther father denied, the girl says to my brother thather parents are abusive and she wantsto runaway with mybrother, he wants to saveher fromher abusive parents, my parents tried to convince him but he said he loves and can’t leave her there while the runaway idea was suggested by her now if my brother runsaway with her doingnikkah me and parents are sinful?

Fiqh of Marriage, Pre-Marital Relations

26 Feb

ANSWER: The prophet salla Allahu alaihi wa sallam said that any marriage without the consent of her father is void! If her father is abusive as she claims, she must go to the muslim ruler or muslim judge or the authorized Imam of the Islamic center and he would look into her case and check […]

I was in a haram relationship with a guy. He ended it because of a fight. Later I realized that it is a sin in islam and I repented. Will this repentance be valid since I didn’t ended it for Allah at first place? Is this mercy from Allah?

Pre-Marital Relations

26 Jan

Yes, it will be valid if you repented sincerely for your sins and have no communication with him.

Sheikh, I like a boy and I’ve prayed so many times to forget him if he’s not for me. I have no contact with him. But I can’t forget him, so does that mean its allah’s will that I can’t forget him? And will he be for me inshallah?

Pre-Marital Relations

05 Sep

ANSWER: This is Satan messing up with your mind and would make you fall into sinning at the slightest opportunity. Stop thinking about him, keep your mouth moist with the remembrance of Allah and find a halal hobby to occupy yourself in free time.

Sir I committed zina with a hindu girl should I marry her now she is threatening to marry her ? Sir what should I do now

Pre-Marital Relations

22 Aug

ANSWER: No, you are not obliged to marry her. It’s totally prohibited to marry a hindu and the marriage would be invalid. Repent sincerely to Allah while showing deep remorse and keep yourself away from anything that would lead to zina.

sheikh , there is a girl which I love and I wanna make it halal with nikkah, but sheikh I feel she isn’t the one for me, she is faithful but she goes to nightclubs, to beaches, hugs her male friends, on the other hand I want to forget her , but on the other hand I love her sheikh , what should I do?

Halal/Haram Matters, Pre-Marital Relations

21 Aug

ANSWER: You can’t be a real true man if you love such a person and accept what she does! No man would marry such a woman and enter paradise! Leave this woman and run without looking back!

Sheikh, my friend has fallen in love with an ahmedi man. He claims that He beleives that Rasool Saww is the last prophet of Allah and he beleives in quran. He observes fasts prays 5 times and gives zakkah and is so perfect in his conduct and character. Is there a way my friend can marry to him?

Apostasy, Halal/Haram Matters, Pre-Marital Relations

20 Aug

ANSWER: Of course not! If he is a true muslim, why does he call himself an ahmadi? She must break off all relations and communication with him immediately, block him from everywhere and repent sincerely to Allah while showing deep remorse if she wants Allah to forgive her. Premarital relationships are totally prohibited in Islam […]

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