Pre-Marital Relations

QUESTION: I had a completely platonic relationship with a girl who was my bestfriend. Because I was focusing more on my deen, I understood that we couldnt be friends and I told her about it. We were totally just friends but I feared that I would be sinful for this as some of our conversations included talking and encouraging haram stuff like haram relationships. Would this be a just reason to leave her?

27 Apr

ANSWER: Cut all communications and contact with her immediately and block her from everywhere. There is no such thing as platonic relationship in Islam! It’s totally prohibited to be friends with non mahram opposite gender, PERIOD!

QUESTION: My elder sister is having a boyfriend and i knew about it. I’ve told her to leave him as it is haram but she doesn’t leave him as she want to marry him.i did everything that i could .I’ve told her to get married if u like him but the boy is unemployed .What should i do to make her understand? And if she doesn’t understand am i held accountable for stop taking to her?!

Fiqh of the family, Pre-Marital Relations

15 Mar

ANSWER: If not talking to her would make her stop seeing him, you must stop talking to her.

QUESTION: Sheik, I have a colleague in office and I had developed some feelings for her. Alhamdulilah I have managed to cut off all the interactions with her but I’m unable to forget her. I think about her all day and not able to focus on other stuff and prayers too. Please advice.

Pre-Marital Relations

07 Mar

ANSWER: This is what happens when you don’t obey Allah’s commands to lower your gaze and not to intermingle with non mahrams! Get married if you can, otherwise fast every alternate day and always lower your gaze. Cut all means that lead to such a sin, like cutting off the internet from all devices, stop […]

QUESTION: I liked my cousin but I never told it to anyone, recently he got engaged to someone else and now I cant get rid of thinking about him. I prayed, I do adhkar, I read Quran daily but i dont know why this is happening to me as I cant forget him. Please show me the straight path

Etiquette, Morals and Heart-Softeners, Pre-Marital Relations

20 Oct

ANSWER: This is satan messing up with your head to make you fall into sin. Pray for him and his new bride and for their happiness. Ignore these whispers and move on. Occupy yourself with constructive things and halal hobbies during free time, besides learning about your religion and trying to be a better Muslimah.

QUESTION: My sister is in Haram Relationship we did literally Everything to make her understand that this is Haram in Islam …but Sheikh she isn’t listening Due to this Sheikh their is lot of tension in Our family….my mom has gotten into Depression due to this ..

Pre-Marital Relations

07 Oct

ANSWER: If you are living in the west, there isn’t much you can do except to make duaa for her and remind her of Allah and threaten her to boycott her off totally. This the heavy price of living in kafir countries.

A guy broke my heart by making me believe he loves me. I wanted a halal relationship,told him speak with ur parents. He tried once and parents said no. he gave up on me. we were together for 2 years. His parents reason is that i am not from their tribe plus a foreigner. Will his parents be punished for rejecting me for this reason? will he be punished too for not trying enough?

Pre-Marital Relations

28 Aug

ANSWER: A guy does not need permission from anyone to get married to a girl. He is free to marry her if her wali agrees. Do not ask about his parents sin as they are not sinful for rejecting you or about his sin for not trying harder! You are sinful for being in a […]

My sister (28 y.o) talks to some guy on the phone at night, father and brother talked to her, she doesn’t listen, they do nothing, should i no longer live with them and is it permissible to break her face?

Halal/Haram Matters, Pre-Marital Relations

16 Jun

ANSWER: You should stay there and give her dawah once in a while with good manners, knowledge and wisdom. You have no right, none whatsoever to break her face or to lay a hand on her!

If a person who’s practicing has attached himself to a girl who is not practicing and she is in haram relationship/close to marriage can such person make dua to get married to her or is it transgression in dua?

Fiqh of Marriage, Pre-Marital Relations

30 May

ANSWER: Such a person can’t be “practicing” while willing to be engaged to such an individual! This falls under the definition of dayyouth. She is not the last woman on earth!

Here in India a lot of Muslim girls are in relationship with Hindu boys, Some girls come into the relationship even after knowing everything, and some girls falls into their trap. Usually they pretend to be secular in front of muslim girls, praise Islam and muslims, be good to them, keep saying they are secular and express their fake love, and after marrying them, they show them true Hindutva.

Pre-Marital Relations, Religions

16 May

ANSWER: Mind your own business and focus on learning Islam and talking and mixing only with other muslim men and giving them dawah! Do not involve with Muslim women nor mix with them or communicate with them.

When I was younger I had a haram relationship with a non-Muslim. I have repented and married a Muslim man. However, I still miss my ex. Can I see him again in jannah?

Pre-Marital Relations, Repentance

11 May

ANSWER: Of course not! Non Muslims don’t enter paradise! You should be worried if you are going to make it to paradise yourself! Part of your repentance is to feel remorse for your sin which is obvious you don’t have!

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