Fiqh of the family

If father doesn’t feel disrespected from something i did, which could be disrespectful islamically or in some cultures, am i sinful? For example he is backbiting and i try to defend someone or stop him from backbiting but he continues so i take a deep breath as if im frustrated etc.

Character and Morals, Fiqh of the family

13 Mar

ANSWER: Do not take a deep breath as this is like saying uff.

My dad is pressurized by his bro and bros family to send them money. Even his nephews disrespect my parents. My dad then limits my mom to send his family money. Whenever my mom buys anything he says money is wasted. But he has spent A LOT of money on his bro and bros fam but doesn’t consider that. yet they are so ungrateful and say my dad never helps them. what he is doing is right? And what to do

Character and Morals, Dealings and Attitudes with Relatives, Fiqh of the family

10 Mar

ANSWER: This is his money and he has the right to do with it whatever pleases him. He on the other hand must not favor others over his own wife and children as they are his priority.

My father got angry at me due to a very small reason. I apologized with 3 times but he shouted at me instead and he’s not been talking to me since 5 months. I always ask forgiveness from Allah. Will my prayers be valid as I heard Allah gets angry if you hurt your parents or if parents are angry at us

Etiquette, Morals and Heart-Softeners, Fiqh of the family

05 Mar

ANSWER: Keep asking his forgiveness without nagging him and do things for him that would make him happy & be pleased with you and make a lot of dua to Allah to open his heart for you.

When i knock on my moms room door, she sometimes doesn’t say “come in” or , she also says “yes?” and I know this gives me permission to go into her room, is it okay for me to go into her room even if she doesn’t say specifically “come in” ?

Fiqh of the family, Halal/Haram Matters

21 Feb

ANSWER: No, you should not go until she says come in.

I have heard a hadith that status of a deceased person is elevated by praying of his son. In this regard what we have to pray. As my father has passed 4 years back, I just want to know what i have to do Or pray, so that my fathe’s status gets elevated and his sins be forgiven. I am his daughter. And is this only for sons? Thank you

Fiqh of the family, Funerals

08 Feb

ANSWER: This is for both sons and daughters.

Am I sinful if my elder sisters don’t do hijab properly..?Although I try to tell them to wear hijab properly and try my best

Fiqh of the family, Women clothing

26 Jan

ANSWER: If you have advised them, you have done your job and you’re not accountable if they don’t. It’s your father’s responsibility to order them to wear the proper islamic hijab. Keep advising them with good manners, wisdom and knowledge but do not nag them.

Is the dua of the husband for his wife as strong as the dua of the parent for his son/daughter?

Fiqh of Marriage, Fiqh of the family, Supplications

21 Jan

ANSWER: No.

If my father and my husband have different opinions and they give me different suggestions in a situation, whome should I obey? Who has more rights over me?

Fiqh of Marriage, Fiqh of the family

21 Jan

ANSWER: This is too generic. If it is something not related to any of them, it is your preference to choose what you want as if it is related to how to fix your car! But if it is related to something that relates to your husband’s rights such as how to wear your hair […]

We r 2 sis n no bros.We have 1 home,now my father is gifting us the house totally.Like in papers,it will be written “this house belongs to me n my sis equally.Is it ok?He is not doing a will like after his death we will get it rather than that he is gifting us

Fiqh of the family, Inheritance

21 Jan

ANSWER: No problem in this as long as it’s done officially and the house would actually belong to you both (not just on paper) and he would have no right on it.

If i become a daee & preach islam, will my parents get reward for it, even if they are against it? I want to persuade them to let me be a daee, so i need to tell them the rewards they may get

Fiqh of the family, Knowledge & Propagation

16 Jan

ANSWER: No, they won’t get the reward if they’re against it.

More..