Fiqh of the family

When a person was undutiful to his father out of complete ignorance, how can she be forgiven by Allah now that she had repented and turned back to Allah? Her father had passed away so there is no way to ask for his forgiveness. How can she be dutiful to him while he’s dead? Will Allah punish her for the sins she committed out of ignorance?

13 May

ANSWER: Have the best hope in Allah as Allah is as His servant thinks of Him. Make a lot of dua for him besides sincerely repenting to Allah.

If our old parents are wrong somewhere..so can we shout on them beacuse they r not listening to us (they r not doing anything haram)or we should stay quiet

Fiqh of the family, Halal/Haram Matters

07 May

ANSWER: You can do this if you want to end up in hell! This is totally prohibited and one of the major sins in Islam and Allah won’t forgive you unless your parents forgive you!

My father has not been talking to his brother since about 19 years, and we don’t have his number as well… I’m 20 now. I have not met or spoken to my paternal uncle since then. He lives in a foreign Country. How should I maintain my ties with my paternal uncle in such a case? How should I start it? I have never spoken to him but I fear Allah

Character and Morals, Fiqh of the family

05 Apr

ANSWER: Try to get his number and call him and introduce yourself to him

I liked a girl and approached to her parents. They accepted me and ready to give her daughter in my nikah. I’m a daee and they liked my religious attitude. My parents delaying the marriage because i habe 2 elder sister and they are unmarried. What should i do? Wait or ge5 married before my sisters.

Fiqh of Marriage, Fiqh of the family

28 Mar

ANSWER: No need to wait for them to get married. If you are financially independent, go ahead and get married with or without your parents.

I’m so much worried about my marriage. My father-in-law is step father to my husband and he keeps on controlling our marriage. I was silent till the moment. Now, I want to do a job and my husband has no issue about it. He allows me but my FIL refrains me from doing this job. It is a teaching job with good incentives. Kindly guide me shaikh what to do in this scenario

Dealings and Attitudes with In-Laws, Fiqh of the family, Mahram

28 Mar

ANSWER: This man is not related to you and he is a non mahram to you and you must not mix or communicate with him. Stop all communications with him. Only your husband’s real father is your mahram. This man has no authority over you or your husband. If your husband is fine with your […]

Shaikh I’m living in india, and my mom force me to live with joined family, and I have a my brother at home, i tell my mother that it’s not permesible, for my wife to live in a same house, with her brother in law , but she starts crying. And forcing me to live with her, what can I do.

Fiqh of the family, Kind Treatment of Spouses

28 Mar

ANSWER: Get a separate home, furnish it and get it ready for you to move into it. Once it is ready, tell your mother and move out and apologize for her that you had already paid the rent of one year.

Married 1st cousin,spouse always looks for my siblings sins and backbites them to me, then tells me not to tell anyone, to keep the secrets that he has found out about my siblings, such as the haraam things they are doing. How to deal with this?

Backbiting, Fiqh of Marriage, Fiqh of the family

28 Mar

ANSWER: You must remind him that backbiting is a major sin and leave his company until he speaks of something else if he doesn’t stop.

If my husband is shouting on my mother in law in front of me with words like, “use your brain otherwise don’t irritate me, you are brainless and so our maternal relatives”, as his wife, what should i do? And if i don’t say anything because of the fear that my husband might fight with me, am i wrong? Please help.

Character and Morals, Fiqh of Marriage, Fiqh of the family

26 Mar

ANSWER: You must not say a word and simply not be in the same place and when he is in a good mood, talk about the major sin of being disrespectful to parents without taking his name, with diplomacy, wisdom and knowledge.

I dont like gender mixing in the family especially my brother’s wife as the prophet said that next to kinship are death. My father said to me, don’t follow islam so strictly as a man came to prophet and asked if i follow the 5 pillars of islam, will i go to jamnah. Prophet said yes. And the prophet said to the people he is a man jannah. Please can you clearify this hadeeth?

Commentary on Hadeeth, Fiqh of the family

17 Mar

ANSWER: This is true. However, this doesn’t mean that he won’t go first to hell to cleanse him from his sins before going to paradise! Doing the 5 pillars of Islam doesn’t mean that one can do as many sins as he wants and won’t be held accountable for them!

If father doesn’t feel disrespected from something i did, which could be disrespectful islamically or in some cultures, am i sinful? For example he is backbiting and i try to defend someone or stop him from backbiting but he continues so i take a deep breath as if im frustrated etc.

Character and Morals, Fiqh of the family

13 Mar

ANSWER: Do not take a deep breath as this is like saying uff.

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