Etiquette, Morals and Heart-Softeners

QUESTION: Sheikh, i love my parents soo much,And they love me too.but they tend to give more attention to my sister like buying her things that i don’t have,and sending her to summer classes while they didn’t care abt what i wanted to do.they tell that they will do this n that if i do something and after i do,they just don’t care.it’s frustrating and i disobey sometimes,advise me,i am afraid of losing janna

Etiquette, Morals and Heart-Softeners, Fiqh of the family

21 Aug

ANSWER: You should fear Allah and treat them with respect and obedience while being dutiful. Favoring your sister over you is sinful and Allah will hold them accountable for that. However, disobeying them and displeasing them is a major sin that you will be held accountable for no matter what your excuse is. Stop being […]

QUESTION: What is the general ruling for not eating food that we do not like the taste and cannot continue to eat. People say to eat it but don’t throw it. Please guide me as one of my friends even if he does not like the food or even if he is full he keeps eating just so the food is not thrown away. Is he right to do so or is he sinning?

Etiquette, Morals and Heart-Softeners, Halal/Haram Matters

15 Aug

ANSWER: You must not eat what you don’t like and should leave it for someone else.

QUESTION: Sheikh, some people wronged me. I’ve forgiven them. But some have tormented me so much that even after forgiving, I make dua to Allah so that HE does justice to me & decrees whatever punishment upon them HE thinks necessary. Is this kind of feeling appropriate or should I forgive & try to forget everything, thinking that Allah will satisfy me with rewards in the hereafter?

Character and Morals, Etiquette, Morals and Heart-Softeners

13 Aug

ANSWER: If you have forgiven them, this is transgressing after forgiveness You should move on and leave them to Allah.

QUESTION: If a friend stops talking to me is it mandatory for me to try to talk to him?I mean I didn’t stop talking,So will I be sinful or only that person will be sinful?

Character and Morals, Etiquette, Morals and Heart-Softeners

12 Aug

ANSWER: You are not sinful as long as you give salam whenever you happen to see him somewhere. You don’t have to call him or go out of your way to meet with him.

QUESTION: I watched your video about hugging thrice on Eid and you said it’s not from the sunnah. Is it also not from the sunnah to hug thrice on all other occasions outside of Eid?

Etiquette, Morals and Heart-Softeners

06 Jul

ANSWER: Correct, inside or outside of Eid, this is not from the Sunnah.

DOUBTS

Etiquette, Morals and Heart-Softeners

21 Jun

If you open the door of doubt, Satan will make you doubt the purity of the water you drink! Is your father alive? If yes, then which orphanage did he adopt you from? You will say: I am not adopted. He is my biological father! I would say: do you have a DNA test to […]

QUESTION: Sheikh is there any authentic hadidth that says if two brothers don’t talk in a row for three days they become kafir

Character and Morals, Etiquette, Morals and Heart-Softeners

12 Jun

ANSWER: They don’t become kafirs for not talking to one another! Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said: “It is not permissible for a man to forsake his Muslim brother for more than three days, each of them turning away from the other when they meet. The better of them is the […]

QUESTION: I know that goods deeds are only accepted when we intend for doing it for the sake of Allah but then a story comes to my mind of a girl who was passing by a street and she feeds a hungry or thrusty cat and she was forgiven by this action. But this girl did not feed the cat by the intention of pleasing Allah .

Etiquette, Morals and Heart-Softeners

06 Jun

ANSWER: How do you know that she did not intend Allah’s pleasure in this? And it was a dog and not a cat.

QUESTION: Is it prohibited to take out and have food that strucks in teeth?

Etiquette, Morals and Heart-Softeners, Fasting, Prayer

29 May

ANSWER: If there is food stuck in your teeth, there is no problem in taking it out and throwing it away or swallowing it if you are not fasting or praying.

QUESTION: My family owns pictures of animals on shirts and backpacks. Do i have to throw all of it out because it has images? If i don’t am i getting sins because i could do something about it?

Etiquette, Morals and Heart-Softeners

29 May

ANSWER: You have no right whatsoever in throwing them as they don’t belong to you! You can only stop them if you are the husband or father and head of the family!

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