17 Rajab 1440

Dealings and Attitudes with In-Laws

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Feb 15th, 2019
ANSWER: Do not pay any attention to their comments and do not engage in any argument or dialogue with them!  If they accuse you with something, give t...
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Feb 13th, 2019
ANSWER: Your mother in law is not required to offer it to you and is only doing what is natural to her by looking after her son. You must act accordin...
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Feb 10th, 2019
ANSWER: It is not permissible at all for him to stay in the same apartment with your wife while you’re not home. ...
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Feb 4th, 2019
ANSWER: He is obliged to spend on his wife and children and will be held accountable if he doesn’t. He must serve his mother to the best of his a...
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Feb 2nd, 2019
ANSWER: It is not normal for you to stay with your in-laws in the absence of your husband especially if he has brothers as this would cause you to hav...
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Feb 2nd, 2019
ANSWER: No, this is not disobedience as you’re not obliged to maintain ties of kinship with your in laws. However, if you do this to please your ...
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Feb 1st, 2019
ANSWER: What they have done is absolutely prohibited and they have no right whatsoever in taking your gifts. Ask your husband to take them back from yo...
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Jan 8th, 2019
ANSWER: No to both. They are not from among those Allah has ordered us to uphold ties of kinship with....
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Jan 6th, 2019
ANSWER: If you mean you live alone and your husband lives with his mother, this is absolutely wrong. You must live with him. You’re not sinning a...
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Jan 1st, 2019
ANSWER: You treat others by your caliber and not by theirs!   ...
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Dec 30th, 2018
ANSWER: How can she be a practicing woman if she doesn’t honor her guests? She should bear them for a few days if they come for a visit only, to ...
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Nov 21st, 2018
ANSWER: This is your right in Islam but I don’t know whether your husband will be able to do that. You need to totally ignore her verbal abuse as...
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Oct 18th, 2018
ANSWER: This is transgression from your side! If he wants to be kind to his daughter, you have no right in stopping him or preventing her from acceptin...
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Sep 29th, 2018
ANSWER: Yes, this definitely falls under backbiting which is a major sin. She has no right whatsoever to want her daughter in law to serve her! She ca...
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Aug 26th, 2018
ANSWER: It is every woman’s right in Islam to have a separate accommodation after marriage.  Yes, you have the right to reject a proposal if he ...
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Jun 22nd, 2018
ANSWER: He should not go leaving you with his brother. His brother is not mahram to you. If his brother has his wife as well, she can break such seclus...
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Jun 21st, 2018
ANSWER: Your parents are sinful for asking your inlaws for clothes, and it is not your wife’s duty to serve them, and in case they really nead he...
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Jun 18th, 2018
ANSWER: It’s not your duty at all to live with them or serve them. You have all the right to have a separate accommodation.   ...
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Jun 2nd, 2018
ANSWER: Don’t argue with them and let your husband explain it to them. Don’t participate with them in it. ...
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Apr 24th, 2018
ANSWER: You must always be fully covered whenever he comes and keep your room locked so that he doesn’t enter there and you know when he’s ...