29 Rabi al-Thani 1439

Dealings and Attitudes with In-Laws

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Jan 15th, 2018
ANSWER: Your mother in law is the mother of your husband and if he had to choose between her and you, he will choose her! Therefore, you have to be wis...
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Jan 8th, 2018
ANSWER: You do not have to obey your mother in law and must not be alone with your brother in laws whatsoever.  Being with your parents is the right t...
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Dec 31st, 2017
ANSWER:  No problem in calling them mother or father if this pleases your husband and increases the love for you in their hearts....
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Dec 13th, 2017
ANSWER: It’s not permissible to have these mixed gatherings. You should have separate arrangement for ladies for eating as well as sitting. Tell ...
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Dec 12th, 2017
ANSWER: You have the right to keep your house however you want and can ignore her suggestions but keep in mind she is your elder and you must honor her...
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Dec 9th, 2017
ANSWER: She’s not obliged to cook and clean for her parents in law. However if she does it while she’s already preparing food for her husba...
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Dec 6th, 2017
ANSWER: Don’t keep nagging, just keep him updated whenever you are accused and have patience. Ignore what your in laws are saying and explain to ...
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Nov 14th, 2017
You need to deal with her with a smiling face as if to show whatever she comments, does not have an effect on you, slowly and gradually she will reduce...
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Oct 31st, 2017
There’s no need for that as you wouldn’t know who all she told lies about you to (if she actually did). Ignore all this and don’t let...
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Oct 8th, 2017
You shouldn’t react to anything she says. Just smile and she will eventually stop creating fights as she won’t get any negative response fr...
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Aug 17th, 2017
It is your right to demand a separate accommodation where you don’t need to see anyone from your in laws. If he can’t afford this or he is ...
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Aug 16th, 2017
It is the wife’s right to have separate accomodation after marriage to avoid any problems which may be caused in staying together also yes she wi...
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Jul 11th, 2017
Ask your husband for support in this matter or to provide you with a separate accommodation. You are not obliged to put up with her bad behavior but yo...
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May 15th, 2017
Limit your interaction with them. You must be respectful to them as they are your elders. Treat them with kindness and honor them. Having said that, th...
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May 8th, 2017
You must be respectful to them as they are your elders. Treat them with kindness and honor them. Having said that, they have no right over you and you ...
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May 7th, 2017
Keep the relation but be distant and do not put everything on your heart. Pray for them instead! If you don’t allow what they do to penetrate you...
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May 5th, 2017
No, she can not go against the wishes of the parents. Try to be patient and diplomatic with her, usually grand parents always like to spoil their grand...
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May 3rd, 2017
This is true, she is not required to do any household chores for them, she is not their slave or servant....
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Apr 23rd, 2017
It is your husband’s call and you must not communicate with him at all about this, as you are sinful for speaking to him unnecessarily....
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Dec 15th, 2016
Bowing is not permissible. After marriage, your parents in law are your mahram and you can kiss them....