9 Dhul-Qa'dah 1439

Dealings and Attitudes with In-Laws

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Jun 22nd, 2018
ANSWER: He should not go leaving you with his brother. His brother is not mahram to you. If his brother has his wife as well, she can break such seclus...
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Jun 21st, 2018
ANSWER: Your parents are sinful for asking your inlaws for clothes, and it is not your wife’s duty to serve them, and in case they really nead he...
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Jun 18th, 2018
ANSWER: It’s not your duty at all to live with them or serve them. You have all the right to have a separate accommodation.   ...
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Jun 2nd, 2018
ANSWER: Don’t argue with them and let your husband explain it to them. Don’t participate with them in it. ...
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Apr 24th, 2018
ANSWER: You must always be fully covered whenever he comes and keep your room locked so that he doesn’t enter there and you know when he’s ...
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Apr 14th, 2018
ANSWER: He must not allow his wife to abuse his mother! He must segregate them and live in different houses. ...
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Apr 1st, 2018
ANSWER: Your in laws have no right to interfere in your life at all.  You’re only obliged to listen to your husband. ...
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Mar 12th, 2018
ANSWER: Your wife must stay at her parents house while you are away and not at your parents house. She’s not obliged whatsoever to stay with your...
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Mar 12th, 2018
ANSWER: This is totally wrong and unislamic. It is solely his duty to financially support you and your kids and your duty is to serve him and your chil...
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Mar 11th, 2018
ANSWER: You’re not at all obligated to visit your in laws.  Your husband can visit them on his own, without you.   ...
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Feb 28th, 2018
ANSWER: You must not communicate with him especially when alone and you must abide by the full hijab in his presence....
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Feb 4th, 2018
ANSWER:  If he requires you to mix with any of his male cousins, this is not permissible whatsoever as they are non mahram to you. You must not come i...
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Jan 20th, 2018
ANSWER: You can forgive her by thinking that Allah’s mercy is far beyond anyone in this world and He is the Most Forgiving. So in order to achiev...
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Jan 15th, 2018
ANSWER: Your mother in law is the mother of your husband and if he had to choose between her and you, he will choose her! Therefore, you have to be wis...
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Jan 8th, 2018
ANSWER: You do not have to obey your mother in law and must not be alone with your brother in laws whatsoever.  Being with your parents is the right t...
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Dec 31st, 2017
ANSWER:  No problem in calling them mother or father if this pleases your husband and increases the love for you in their hearts....
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Dec 13th, 2017
ANSWER: It’s not permissible to have these mixed gatherings. You should have separate arrangement for ladies for eating as well as sitting. Tell ...
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Dec 12th, 2017
ANSWER: You have the right to keep your house however you want and can ignore her suggestions but keep in mind she is your elder and you must honor her...
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Dec 9th, 2017
ANSWER: She’s not obliged to cook and clean for her parents in law. However if she does it while she’s already preparing food for her husba...
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Dec 6th, 2017
ANSWER: Don’t keep nagging, just keep him updated whenever you are accused and have patience. Ignore what your in laws are saying and explain to ...