We treat people with kindness and neglect their shortcomings as we are doing it for the sake of Allah! We must raise the bar and not allow them to make us descend to their level.

Can you please tell us in the light of Quran and Sunnah should we still treat those relatives with kindness and love who are very cunning and often put the burden of doing big things on us and run away when their turn comes. Should we stay away from them because of their selfishness or stay in touch and be very kind to them?

Dealings and Attitudes with Relatives | December 1, 2016 4:31 pm
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When ever i say something to my parents about islam they dont hear me . there are photo frames in my house , also a fish statue show piece , i told them its haram allah would ask us to put life in them . So my mom was like i didnt hear about till now , so i told her i can show saheeh hadeets she completly ignored me , am scared if i will be also punished , what should i do ?
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You said that I’m sinful if my mother sees that I’m annoyed by her rude and impolite behavior. How am I supposed to look happy and smile when she is being rude and impolite to me?