First case is permissible, the latter is not allowed.

Can a wife relieve her husband using hands during the days of her menstruation? And if a husband demands from his wife to relieve herself by masturbating during menstruation is it a sin?

Fiqh of Marriage | October 15, 2016 4:28 am
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