A sister had spent 10 years looking for a spouse and the people she trusted and other awful ones who she could not keep out of her life alongside her own bad judgements means that now she goes through so much pain and despair in her old age on her own. What can she do? Does Allah hate her?
Different people are tested differently. This is your test. You must not have so much hate against people, this is what was destined to happen to you so if you bear it with patience, you have passed the test but if you become spiteful and angry about this, you have failed the test and the trial will remain as it as well.
Have complete reliance on Allah and be Thankful to Him for the many blessings that He has bestowed upon you.