My mil do some traditional events, which are being followed in Pakistan, like milad, Quran khuwani, to give khair for the sake of imam. I used to make my husband understand that it is working in our islam. But nobody thinks rights. How I deal with them? And should I also follow them. As it’s inlaws issue.
Oct 14th, 2020
It is not permissible to follow such bidah, or be a part of them. Give advice in a diplomatic way to your husband and show him evidence of it. If they don’t want to listen, you have done your job.