Sir she said that what about all the stories that they show on the television and YouTube as well as some relatives. How can every1 be lying. There are many evidence which acc to her clearly proof that reincarnation is not a lie.
It is a waste of time speaking with a kafir who is unable to See!
Convince her first of the existence of Allah and then of the truth of the Quran. If she believes in this, you can then convince her of the rest! Without this, she will not believe anything!
You shouldn’t take such a person as a friend as this would lower your Iman of Allah and would harden your heart.