I would like to know how to get rid of obsession, whether for a women or wordly things. It seems like my brain works in two ways: i don’t care about something or i’m completely obsessed with it.
You must free yourself by enslaving it to Allah.
A true believer is not obsessed except with worshiping Allah and wanting to please him.
These things you are obsessed with are from Satan and he wants to distract you from Allah.
Once you know this fact, you will know how dangerous this is and how it can destroy your Iman